i am cute but sassy

It's always difficult to describe yourself, but I think I'm a cheerful, humorous, open and loving person.

Okay, maybe I'm a bit pessimistic and don't have a lot of self-confidence. But all in all I'm satisfied.

But it's only since I've been with Ben that I feel complete and super happy.🥰

I feel loved with all my faults and quirks.

I'm not that serious. But not that funny either.

I'm a mix of both and I have a big heart. A lot of people say I have lots of female qualities and I stand by it 🤣🤣.

I love comedy, action and superhero movies. I love series of all kinds, but especially when I watch them with my wife.

I've been looking for the right person, with the right heart, for a very long time. But I wasn't lucky enough to find love that way. I came to Germany because of love, but it took many years until my soul mate (Diana) found me. And a while longer until she dared to say "Hello". Now I am who I was always meant to be “a man who can fully show and share his love.

🤍🖤This is me, a "funny", friendly, loving man.🖤🤍

Being single isn't easy and we've both been searching for a very long time. After a broken marriage, we were both ready for a new relationship. Personally, I have searched, tried, tested and had unsuccessfully different types of relationships after my breakup & divorce. It was the same with Diana, but that's no surprise because (though far apart) we've always been one!!!

We both had almost given up looking for love when my honeybun dared to say hello. She dared to say hello on a Facebook singles page, not at Outfit Sport Studio, where she saw me once or twice a week. She didn't trust to say hello there because I had so many women (as friends) around me or because I was so loud and full of energy. Who knows exactly, but thank God she finally dared and the hello message came. But I was suspicious because I couldn't believe that such a pretty woman would be interested in me and come from Cuxhaven. So all the alarm bells were ringing, fraud, and I was scared of being screwed. But she was too sweet - not to answer. So I answered and we chatted non-stop. And to be sure that she is not fake, I spontaneously arranged a meeting for the next day. Diana jumped over her shadow, and she's not such a spontaneous person nevertheless she said yes.

Two weeks later we said we didn't want to move in together & never want to get married again. After a beautiful night on 12/19/2020 to be precise I turned around at midnight on 12/20/2020 and asked if she wanted to be my girlfriend and she said "YES". She made me the happiest man in the world that day.

A year later, exactly one year later, I couldn't wait any longer and I asked her to marry me in a special way. Check out the Marriage Proposal link.

Five months later we got married and the two families came together and our love is stronger than before.

We are one and always will be!!!!!!

Team BD forever

getting to know each other -

Ben

“I have to say right away, I don’t want any more children and I definitely never want to get married again!!”

Diana

“ I never want to be with a man again move in together and I will not give up my house”

Because of my surgery in May 2021 (6 months later), I was suddenly staying with Diana because she wanted to take care of me . I'm still there 😂😂😂. In July we decided to move in together!!

That's when our first statement was broken 🙈🙈🙈🙈

We were together every second when we weren't at work. We didn't  want anything else, we were totally in love, and totally lost in each other.

In November 2021 I realized that this woman, the woman of my dreams, is everything I wanted in one person and it was incredible for me how similar we were and are.

So I planned something romantic with my friends that had to remain a secret.

Step one - I asked her uncle and her son if it's ok for me to be part of the family because I wanted to propose to Diana. The two were enthusiastic, but at the same time warned me that I had to take good care of her and protect them.

Step two - Jan Martin has to make the video on 12/20/21 when I asked her, Basti and Karo (Our First Friends as a couple )had to distract her when I got on my knees and then came.......

The second statement was also broken 🙈🙈🙈🙈🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 what a couple we are... we can't keep our statements or resolutions in check.